Dating 101: Get A Second Date

The Golden Rules Of Getting A Second Date

Everyone tells you how to get laid – once. If you want to know how to get a second date or hookup then read these tips to keep them coming back for more! Whether you’re meeting people online or through a social event, these rules all apply, but doubly so if you’ve met the person through a dating app or hookup site. Why? First impressions are the only things that matter when someone is deciding whether or not to give you a second chance. If they don’t already have some kind of history with you, or you don’t share mutual friends, it’s much easier to write someone off if the date doesn’t go well. So follow these tips to ensure a second date!

How To Get A Second Date #1: Be Agreeable

Now, you don’t have to be a “yes man.” Quite the contrary, someone who just nods their head is a boring date. However, many people get up in arms and argumentative when “hot button topics” are brought up. The best way to stay away from arguments are to stay away from politics, religion, and other issues that often create polarizing viewpoints. You don’t have to love horses, but your opposing views on your date’s political beliefs are guaranteed to squash any second date you might have. Don’t lie, but don’t argue for arguing’s sake.

How To Get A Second Date #2: Be Decisive

If your plan is to meet up and wing it, that can be really fun – but not if you’re both indecisive and don’t know what you want to do. Go into your first date with a plan – even if you don’t tell them. Know what bars, restaurants, and other entertaining things exist in the area you’re meeting up in. Your date doesn’t need a history lesson, but have an idea and a purpose – even if it’s as simple as getting coffee and sitting down by the boardwalk.

How To Get A Second Date #3: Go Downtown

No, that doesn’t mean the downtown of your city. If you get as far as the bedroom with your potential new lover and you want a second date – then it’s time to show them what skills you have. Whether you’re a man or a woman, if you can perform oral sex with some degree of enthusiasm and skill then they’ll be begging for more. There’s nothing like a good bout of oral sex to keep your lovers coming back, especially since so many people refuse to do it.

How To Get A Second Date #4: Don’t Put All Of Your Eggs In One Basket

The easiest way to totally lose it over someone is by only dating one person. The best way to prevent yourself from falling too hard, too fast – and inevitably blowing it – is to date multiple people. The best way to do this is by joining dating sites or using hookup apps. You can cover the most ground, the most people, in the least amount of time. It’s a great way to meet new people and hey – if your date goes bad, you can always message one of your other hookups to see if they want to meet for a drink in the area! For more on hooking up online and getting dates, read our popular blog posts Five Online Sex Ninja Moves and Go From Introvert To Sextrovert. For even more juicy info on hooking up and sex read the in-depth articles on!